When I think back to some of the most memorable times in my life they were also when "things went wrong".
It's almost as though the formerly held tension to be perfect drops away, as its already too late to salvage the situation, and you can just embrace chaos of life.
That’s a great point about the tension dropping away. As a meditator, Ive recently started feeling a “contraction” around problems and can sometimes let it go. Your point makes me think when the situation becomes unsolvable, we drop the contraction and then suddenly it’s not a big deal and we can laugh about it or at least deal with it.
I'm also a meditator and have also experienced the same letting go of contraction - but it's difficult to do for those big problems that are really eating away at you. At least for me.
It makes you realise though that most of us are going about our lives with this constant need to keep things in order, like invisible shackles, when we'd be so much happier just letting them go.
When I think back to some of the most memorable times in my life they were also when "things went wrong".
It's almost as though the formerly held tension to be perfect drops away, as its already too late to salvage the situation, and you can just embrace chaos of life.
That’s a great point about the tension dropping away. As a meditator, Ive recently started feeling a “contraction” around problems and can sometimes let it go. Your point makes me think when the situation becomes unsolvable, we drop the contraction and then suddenly it’s not a big deal and we can laugh about it or at least deal with it.
I'm also a meditator and have also experienced the same letting go of contraction - but it's difficult to do for those big problems that are really eating away at you. At least for me.
It makes you realise though that most of us are going about our lives with this constant need to keep things in order, like invisible shackles, when we'd be so much happier just letting them go.